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Were envisioning a neutral observer in the cheap seats describing, say, a highschool play. Check out the secrets to a happy marriage that were arrived at after the survey. Shaunti spent three years interviewing and surveying 1,000. The 30 secrets of happily married couples kindle edition by coleman, paul. These reallife couples have been in the marriage trenches and theyre still laughing, smiling having a ball. In happily ever after, gary chapman, the man who wrote the book on how to communicate with your spouse, shows couples how to successfully navigate the six most common problems that couples face. Visit shauntis website and blog for more eyeopening relationship resources at.
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